It should go without saying, but getting to where you wanna be, you're going to have to do these you probably don't wanna do.
Do not let long term goals slip away because of short term convivences.
Regret lasts forever. It will never go away. But do you know what doesn't last forever? Fear.
You only fear something because it's foreign, not because it's necessarily hard. The more you do something, the easier it's going to be. I used to fear being one of "those girls", until I realized I do the same exact thing I was doing, except now I get paid for it. And I'm not just talking about washing my hair, I'm talking about sharing my life on social media.
Imagine for a second doing the same exact things you're doing right now (sharing pics of your family vacation, sharing college experiences, sharing photos of your beautiful kids), but now, you build relationships off of it.
People ask me almost everyday "What I do", to which I reply "the same things I was, except now I'm smart about it". Why overcomplicate it when it's simply NOT complicated? If you're scrolling on social media, MONETIZE IT. Monetize your scroll.
Monat is what is going to get me to my final destination. What is that destination? Not quite sure yet, but some things on my radar are: land, home in Hawaii, potential boutique of some sort (not sure on this one, but it's something I've thought about for 10 years now, so maybe it's there for a reason? Will talk with God about it more later on down the road), be completely DEBT FREE (working on this one), and who knows what else!
You have to say your goals out loud. You have to get real about them and be picky. Be picky on who you spend your time with. Are they draining or staying in the same place, but complaining about it? There's one of two things, make big moves TOGETHER and hold each other accountable, or cut ties with them. I've never regretted cutting ties with a draining individual. It's only made me see more clearly. The best part about this business is it's a snowball affect.
So now, you can't "skip to the good part" but you CAN enjoy the journey. Making sure it's with people who are going to support you is very important. Lots of people won't support you, those aren't your people. Lots of people will try to get close with you to sabotage you, THOSE AREN'T YOUR PEOPLE. Focus on what and who matters.
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